It’s not always easy to take an honest look at your relationship. We often find ourselves comparing our partners – and our relationship – to those around us. Are we doing better or worse than others? But measuring your relationship against someone else’s might not be the best way to evaluate your connection.

Instead, let’s look at what really makes a relationship strong and lasting.

What Makes a Relationship Healthy?

Surprisingly, research shows that 72% of marriages last a lifetime, and 80% of couples report being happy or very happy with their spouse. That means most couples find ways to build relationships that last—even when life is challenging.



So, what’s their secret? Healthy couples intentionally choose to love and support one another. They give each other space to grow, celebrate each other’s goals, and walk together through difficult seasons.

Being the Partner You Want to Have

It’s just as important to be a good partner as it is to have one. Many relationships can improve when both people make the decision to prioritize each other and invest in healthy communication skills.



Sometimes this means reaching out to someone you trust for guidance. On the other hand, if your partner refuses to seek help or insists on keeping serious issues a secret, that can be a red flag that they may not want to change.

Signs of a Loving Relationship

True love shows itself in consistent actions:

• Respect, kindness, and patience
• Honesty and openness
• Valuing your thoughts and feelings
• Never using violence or forcing sex

If these qualities are missing, it may be time to step back and reassess.

Relationships and Life Decisions

Our relationships can play a huge role in the choices we make—especially during big life moments, like an unexpected pregnancy. Others may try to tell you what they think you should do, but ultimately, the decision is yours. Before following advice, pause and ask yourself: Do I believe this is the best step for me right now? If not, take your time and seek the support you need.

Building Toward a Strong Future

Healthy relationships often grow into strong, lasting marriages. If you’re wondering what level of commitment is right for you, our center’s mentors are here to listen and help you think through your next step.

Contact us today for a no-cost, confidential consultation at our Corpus Christi, Portland, or Rockport, Texas locations.